Igniting The Flame of One Relationship Seminar Tour

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Join us for a relationship seminar coming soon to your region.

This workshop is designed for ALL couples in a committed relationship. Research shows that on average, couples wait six years from the first signs of problems to get relationship help. It is designed to strengthen your marriage or relationship. If you have a strong relationship, this workshop will provide you with insights and tools to make it a great one. If your relationship is distressed, this two-day workshop will provide a blueprint for repair.

No public discussion or disclosure is involved. All work is done as a couple.

 

If you would like us to come to your region email us at

marriage4lifeinstitute@gmail.com

 

The Power of 4 In Your Marriage (Faith,Trust,Humility & Love)

Just Released!!

 

 

http://youtu.be/9bC7RBRFbvM

Daddy's Little Girl (Role Model's Understanding, Wisdom)

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriage4life1/2014/05/17/daddys-little-girl-a-role-model

Most dads love their daughters, but they're uncertain how they can show that love in a way their daughters understand...or figure out what their girls really need from them.On this show we will talk about positive and the negative views on the male sex. Your daughter or you will live in a world with boys and men. Pay attention to the way you address her as well as to the way you talk about women. Be thoughtful in the way you speak to your sons about girls and women, and set limits on appropriate language. The tone you set in your home can either negatively impact how she believes or positively set the way she lives out her life.

A Better Listner

 

 

Tonight at 6pm

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriage4life1/2014/04/24/communication-marriage-a-better-listner

Topic: A Better Listner

Many problems in the home are a direct result of poor communication. While both both husband and wife are responsible to communicate truthfully, effectively and biblcally with each other, the husband is the head of the household and thus carries the primary responsibility in ensuring that communication is taking place in the home. On this episode we will be talking about (Listening)Do not assume you know what your spouse is thinking. Do not assume that you know your spouses motives or opinions regarding a situation without first communicating and receiving the necessary information verbally. Remember, only God know the heart. "For I know their works and their thoughts Isaiah 66:18

Communication & Marriage-Undoing the Damage

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/marriage4life1/2014/04/03/communication-marriage-undoing-the-damage

Once you get comfortable expressing your emotions about something outside your relationship, it'll be easier to express yourself when it's something directly involving your spouse or partner inside the relationship..
It takes time to understand how to do this, but once you do , it becomes almost automatic. The best part is that you can manage to change the entire dynamic of your marriage - for the better - once you start making these subtle shifts in yourselff. And you will be happily married for years to come..
We were so amazed by what happened in the couples that we coach , that we put everything we learned into our book so you can experience the same results in your relationships.
Our book is filled with Tools that will help you become more authentic and vulnerable - the kind of spouses that love to devote their hearts to. You'll learn how to show a your husband or wife "The real you" in a way that will bring them closer every day. https://sites.google.com/site/marriage4lifeinstitute/book-and-audio-store

~5 Simple Intimacy Tips to Live By ~

  

                                         ~5 Simple Intimacy Tips to Live By ~           

 

Intimacy and Romance Tip #1:

Flowers and candy are nice, and occasionally for a special occasion these gifts are always pleasant to receive, but when money is tight, for some of you these gifts are frivolous, and flowers die and candy is eaten - and then there is nothing left.

For most women, she truly doesn't want you to spend a whole lot of money on her to show her you love and care about her. Just quality time!!

Buying her a bouquet of flowers occasionally, as I said earlier, is perfectly acceptable, but don't expect a gift you bought with cash to bring about the type of intimacy she needs. Try a different kind of gift and see how she responds. Like a new branded handbag, shoes, clothing, a piece of jewelry, a 10 star restaurant with all the ambiance.

Intimacy and Romance Tip #2:

Let her know you are thinking about her; listen and communicate especially the first time that you got together. This really takes very little effort and costs absolutely nothing but your time.

My husband sends me several text messages throughout the day while he's doing several errands, just to say he's thinking about me and loves me. I find myself really looking forward to these, and if most of the day goes by and I haven't received one yet, I realize how much I miss them!

One morning, I woke after he was already up; preparing for the day I went into the bathroom to take a shower, there was fresh towels, a wash cloth and roses. Wow! What a surprise…

These little reminders that your woman is on your mind even when you are not with her will make her feel special and important and they take very little time and effort on your part for such a large payoff in return.

Intimacy and Romance Tip #3:

Give her a gift for no reason at all and make it something personal, special even if it is cleaning the house. My husband loves to clean and moves things around. I simply adore the next decorating idea that he comes up with or my input on where things should be placed. I promise if you communicate with each other the things that you want in life it can happen.

Intimacy and Romance Tip #4:

Touch your woman! I'm not talking in a sexual or suggestive way either. One of the things that just does it for me is when my husband seeks me out before he does anything else and kisses, touches, pats, strokes -- something. It doesn't take much, but when you greet her, it doesn't matter if you have been gone for a few minutes or a few days, touch her, kiss her and hug her. Kiss her goodbye, even if you are just running to the store for a few minutes.

When she's standing at the sink washing dishes or at the stove cooking, come up behind her and put your arms around her. Kiss her neck, make her stop for a minute to give you a hug - but touch her.

However, if you take that touching and turn it into something sexually suggestive, it doesn't count in the romance and intimacy department. Just touch her and let her know you enjoy the physical presence of her company. The power of touch is amazing - try it, and you'll see.

Romance and Intimacy Tip #5:

Along the lines of touching her, tip number five deals with physical intimacy - but again, without it leading to sex - but goes a bit further. Intimacy and romance are not just about flowers, poetry, love songs, and gifts... a couple should spend time together in physical situations that do not always lead to sexual relations.

Brush her hair, rub lotion on her back, her legs, her feet,  for her, give her a sensual (not sexual) massage, kiss her forehead or fingertips or neck.

Cuddling on the couch, "making out" with no expectations, walking hand in hand, wrapping your arm around her and holding her close at a movie, slow dancing, snuggling under a blanket in front of a fire, if you have one - these are all physical intimacies that are not sexually related that make such a huge difference for the woman in your life.

Proverbs 5:19
A loving doe, a graceful deer—may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be captivated by her loveSee More